i hate when i feel this way....

i don't know for some reason today just wasn't the best day for me, I feel great when I go to workout @ the gym I love when I sweat because then I know that I'm doing something good, I know that I'm working towards something, then when I'm eating healthy it just makes me feel better but when i'm eating healthy and not working out it doesn't seem that i'm working towards something and i haven't gone to the gym in about a week because i've been busy moving into the new apartment and trying to put everything where it belongs, but from anniville to the gym it's a good distance and that's alot of gas and i need to see if there is an allternate route, like to find some workouts that do work that i can do at home, and not have to drive into town 3-4 days a week, and it hurts like my husband isn't happy to see me all the time he says he is, but maybe it's all in my head maybe it's just me maybe i'm just too insecure about myself to see that he really is loving and being affectionate with me, or maybe if i am feeling this way then that means there is something wrong??? i don't know i got really hott tonight and i couldn't sleep (hence the reason why i am awake so late) so i came downstairs to watch some t.v but while i was laying in bed, i could feel how large my stomach was my theighs and my legs, i just wish i could be the perfectly fit girl, i see girls in the gym all the time and i say why is that skinny bitch at the gym, i wish someone would say that about me but i feel like people are saying and she only comes 3 days a week? bitch needs to come 7. i just wanna be a size 9-10, but instead i'm a 16. i wanna weight what i'm supposed to weight i wanna be able to wear skinny jeans and look good doing it, i just wanna feel sexy and look sexy and i want my husband to just tell me and i want him to WANT ME. I just feel so insecure right now, and i hate that i feel this way... and to top it off I think my brother doesn't concider me his sister i mean we have the same mom but different dads, but me and my sister aren't that way, we're really close, i mean i can pretty much tell her anything that i want to, and vice versa. I mean the only time I talk to him is if I happen to answer my moms phone or if- he comes down to texas which is only once every few years, i talk to his wife more than him but he calls both my mom and sister and sends them both a text, and he does neither. I think the last time I remember him calling to actually talk to me, not for a question or what not- was my 18th birthday (I'm almost 21) and I remember my phone ringing when Isabel passed away, but when she passed I didn't want to talk to anyone but Isabel's family, IDK it just really made me cry I love my brother I really do, but I wonder if he conciders me his real sister or his half sister. It makes me sad.... It's probally all in my mind but this is how I feel.

On my Journey to loosing 30 pounds.


on the bright side, I'm loving the new place (:

i hate when i feel this way....

i don't know for some reason today just wasn't the best day for me, I feel great when I go to workout @ the gym I love when I sweat because then I know that I'm doing something good, I know that I'm working towards something, then when I'm eating healthy it just makes me feel better but when i'm eating healthy and not working out it doesn't seem that i'm working towards something and i haven't gone to the gym in about a week because i've been busy moving into the new apartment and trying to put everything where it belongs, but from anniville to the gym it's a good distance and that's alot of gas and i need to see if there is an allternate route, like to find some workouts that do work that i can do at home, and not have to drive into town 3-4 days a week, and it hurts like my husband isn't happy to see me all the time he says he is, but maybe it's all in my head maybe it's just me maybe i'm just too insecure about myself to see that he really is loving and being affectionate with me, or maybe if i am feeling this way then that means there is something wrong??? i don't know i got really hott tonight and i couldn't sleep (hence the reason why i am awake so late) so i came downstairs to watch some t.v but while i was laying in bed, i could feel how large my stomach was my theighs and my legs, i just wish i could be the perfectly fit girl, i see girls in the gym all the time and i say why is that skinny bitch at the gym, i wish someone would say that about me but i feel like people are saying and she only comes 3 days a week? bitch needs to come 7. i just wanna be a size 9-10, but instead i'm a 16. i wanna weight what i'm supposed to weight i wanna be able to wear skinny jeans and look good doing it, i just wanna feel sexy and look sexy and i want my husband to just tell me and i want him to WANT ME. I just feel so insecure right now, and i hate that i feel this way... and to top it off I think my brother doesn't concider me his sister i mean we have the same mom but different dads, but me and my sister aren't that way, we're really close, i mean i can pretty much tell her anything that i want to, and vice versa. I mean the only time I talk to him is if I happen to answer my moms phone or if- he comes down to texas which is only once every few years, i talk to his wife more than him but he calls both my mom and sister and sends them both a text, and he does neither. I think the last time I remember him calling to actually talk to me, not for a question or what not- was my 18th birthday (I'm almost 21) and I remember my phone ringing when Isabel passed away, but when she passed I didn't want to talk to anyone but Isabel's family, IDK it just really made me cry I love my brother I really do, but I wonder if he conciders me his real sister or his half sister. It makes me sad.... It's probally all in my mind but this is how I feel.

On my Journey to loosing 30 pounds.


on the bright side, I'm loving the new place (:

new things are happening!!

Sorry that I haven't written in a while.. so quite a few things have been going on.. for one my husband is finally caught up with his back child support so we won't be paying $125 a week anymore just $100 (: and then we get to keep our tax refund whoo hoo! we need it too, because we're in the process of MOVING!! we're moving to Anniville though, that's not to bad but it's an amazing step in me and george's relationship/marriage we're starting off fresh (in the words of my husband) we're buying new couches, we're going to buy a new mattress we're soon going to buy a new dresser and we're going to get a rocker chair for me so that i can rock rhylan, because like now he's sick and he's very cuddly with me, so that will be good. We're going to decorate all the rooms different and what I LOVE about this Townhouse is that it has a patio with alot of storage places, and I want to be able to have little get togethers there as VS where we're at now we can't because it's too small i mean 5 people here and it's totally crowded! Like Rhylan's 2nd birthday is coming up & My 21st birthday as well, and now we have the space to do something at the Casa if that's what we decide what we want to do. Anyways, on to the next thing- well when I lost the 6 pounds I was absolutely thrilled so the following week i slacked on my diet and didn't work out like I should have so I gained back 3 pounds so this week I went to work out Wednesday & Thursday night and did good on my diet except once when George's friend brought us WHATABURGER for dinner. (: .... & then today I went to find out my weight at I lost almost 3 pounds. but I did loose 2. so I'm happy about it, In my opinion if i keep going the way I'm doing i think I could loose enough weight by July. But I've gotta "purchase" my birthday outfit by the end of June, so that I can make sure, that for sure it's here by my birthday. SO JESUS HELP ME! Monday-Thursday. Gym at most 2 hours. and eat good and healthy, try my best not have bread products and no coke. Just water, crystal light and my biggest loser protein drinks and of course my supplements, I'm hoping for a double digit weight loss this week.. I've got to buy my new supplements this weekend! Anyways, I'll let everyone know about my process weight loss. I finished another book titled "He's just not that into you" I wasn't into it at all, but my goal is 100 books, and I bought it, So i had better read it. Now it's onto the next book.... Nicolas SParks "Message in the bottle" that's all for now. TTYL

new changes.

so we might be moving by the end of the month! but the bad thing is. we have to arrange some things like the whole spending money deal! but anywho. so pray for us that we get this because we really need more space! and anywho-

so i went to heb last night and discovered what i already knew- last week i got off my diet and i gained a few pounds. 3 pounds to be exact. so i need to go back down and i need to stay on my diet.

i wanna see what happens if i cut out dairy from my diet. totally. and even bread.

i want to hopefully loose 30 pounds by July. Please Jesus help me!!!

My Journey......

things have been going well for me. I have lost 6 pounds and 3 inches from my waist so far, i still have a long way to go, but with the support of my family I know that I can do this! I just need to work out harder and longer and eat the right meals... I went to kmart last week and put some things on lay away for rhylan so that we can get his new room set up for him like his toddler bed, his potty and stuff for his room and etc. and i put a pair of size 10 jeans in there too (cost only $20.00) and thats where i wanna be eventually there's a possibility that i want to be even smaller we just have to see how it looks, i don't wanna be like these anorexic skanks lol so yeah. Rhylan is getting a whole lot smarter, saying a bunch of words like "mom,dad,outside,remote,bottle,box,bird,papa,book,poopoo,trash,fresh" and a whole lot more, I'm enjoying my time with him so much we're not ready for another one yet, I'm not ready to share my love with another child. Anywho- so i'm reading the last book of the Magic in Manhattan series which is called Parties & Potions by Sarah Mlynowski. and we should be getting a house to rent by the summer and I'm excited, because then we'll have my 21st birthday party and rhylans 2nd birthday party. whoo hoo! anyways, that's all for now. <33 my family.

i'm doing better for myself.

Gym, Didn't happen tonight I decided that I wanted to try the P90X and boy oh boy did i feel like i was already at the gym.. haha. anywho so i am getting closer to achieving my goal/goals. like i said over the weekend i checked my weight and i had lost 6 pounds whoo hoo that means i have 58 more pounds to go... anywho so i am doing good on my other goals.. i am almost done with my 13th book. so that means i only have 87 more books to read. that's awesome (: well if any of you have any suggestions on books or weight loss or whatever bring them to my attention!! please and thank you.

thrilled!!

so it took alot of talking to my husband saturday to get threw to him that i really want him to open up i didn't know what was going to happen when i approached him crying, so the jealousy is gone thank god, because who really wants to be jealous of her? so we're getting back a good amount of money for income tax. so he's getting a projector and a screen so he's happy about that then in a few months we're going to buy ME a 65 inch t.v (; whoo hoo! haha. so the good part about everything that has happened lately? claudia is out of my life.. for good. and my husband hates her i am still upset about the whole ilissa thing.. but i can't do anything to change her mind all i can do is be there if she ever needs anything and do as much as i can for her (which i already do) and her mom and even her gma can vouch for that, we got her quite a bit for christmas i think she got more than my son did, lol. from... us anyway. so saturday night is Victoria+George spending time together so we're cuddling on the couch almost had sex haha. but i was way drunk... he made me uhh.. about 3 margaritas and i was GONEE! he was serving them to me because idk for some reason when i make them i can't drink em but when he made em i was like pour me another.. him and my awesomess brother in law david can make the ritas. haha so i was laying down and then when i can't have anymore and i get up to hook my cell to the charger it hits me... i'm drunk off my ass. LOL i was like babe im goin to bed and i really did go to bed. but we had a good time.. but now we need to buy some more Tequila LOL.. but NOW... to the uber fantastic NEWS!!! so we go to H-E-B to go and get a few groceries so on the way out i'm like okay i'm gonna weigh my self and see what the deal is on how my week went.. and guesss what? I LOST 6 POUNDSSSS! omg. how terrific is that? so that means i only have 58 more pounds to go!! let's get this done baby! whoo hoo. congradulate me because i am thrilled!! only a short time and i'll be shopping at forever 21 (skinny biotch store) to buy me an outfit to celebrate my loosing all the weight that i wanted to dinner (; whoo hoo. I think that I deserve it since I did my best to work it outttt baby. well that's all for now. good night everyone!!